Interesting topic.
I'm 17 and I lost mine a couple months ago to my current boyfriend who I've been dating for over two years. We had discussed it numerous times before we actually did it, and we knew how to take care of the consequences of pregnancy if that were the case.. so, everything went fine in the mind. (Minus the pain, lol O___O ;P) My advice is to carefully plan it all out and be ready to accept what may come afterwards.
Some relationships don't last very long after sex because the guy may be wanting to have sex more or the girl may become emotionally clingy. To prevent this, the key would be to COMMUNICATE. One of the most important rules in having a stable and healthy relationship.. next to TRUST. Tell them what's on your mind and be blunt; and hopefully afterwards you two will come to a pleasant compromise.
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Last edited by aishiteruhoney : 02-03-2008 at 10:19 PM.
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