[mallorymaloney]

For example, let's take a case example. A woman married with 3 kids. Then finds out her husbands are cheating on her. What does she do?

1. Confront the husband? Now, if that happens then what are the options left? You either end up divorced or that you forever live with each other having lost trust in each other and there will never be the same again.

2. Understand that the husband is just doing what nature dictates and he still loves you just as much? This option may be wiser.

Remember, when men cheat on their wives sexually, it's like playing ping pong with another person. You can play ping pong with lots of people.

Whoa! No offense, cool, but that's just messed up.

If a man's in a relationship with a woman, and he's married, and has kids, that's it. He has absolutely no right to go and cheat with another woman simply because his gender makes him think about sex 24/7. No effin' way. That's bullshit!

If I was in that situation; Married, with kids, and I found out my husband cheated on me? Like, 'Oh, honey, it's not you ... You're still hot ...! I just, you know, wanted to play around a little, if y'know what I mean. Hey, wanna have sex now? Maybe my girlfriend could, uh, join us or somethin' babe?'

Well.

Firstly, I'd punch him in the gut to make him bend over in shock, then I'd take my army boot clad foot and kick the idiot in the nuts, and knee him in the nose immediately after. Next, I'd push him onto the ground, scream for awhile about what a complete and utter low life he is, then I'd go to the phone book, look up a divorce agency, and me and the kids would be out of there within the hour.

I'd never cheat on a guy, and I'd expect the same from him. I don't care about his lame testosterone levels --- He can visit a porn site if he's so damn eager. I'll give him my credit card. o_O

But ... To the original topic ... I don't like this whole 'Oh, 'ya should have sex whenever you please! At any age! Ooh it surrrrrre feels good, don't denyyyy. Mmmm-mm!' philosophy. It's fcuked right up.

I see the results of this kind of thinking every day in my city ... Young girls pushing baby strollers around, living off of the government's cheques, sleeping with who knows how many guys, popping out babies right and left to fork in spending money ... Ugh. The kids usually have mental disabilities because the 'mothers and fathers' have no idea how to take care of the kid, or what not to smoke/drink whilst pregnant or conceiving, etcetera.

Ugh.

I don't what age sex should be 'allowed' ... But it should probably be like 19 or something? Maybe 18 at the lowest.

Here in Canada, kids are legally allowed to have sex at 14, I think it is --- Yet they can't get into an R rated movie until they're much older? WTF!

I'm not sure if I'll ever have sex --- I used to say 'I'll have sex when I get married,' but I'm not sure I want to marry! I've had only a couple of boyfriends, but their attitudes over things like sex just ... Disgusts me.

For example. My latest ex's response to my personal 'I want to wait until I marry to have sex' philosophy.

'Oh, that's cool, I can respect that ... But you know, that's not how it works, nine times out of ten.'

Um ... Right. Right ...

WHAT THE F*CK?!

Sorry, assh*le, maybe that's how it goes with other chicks, but not with me, I thought.

May I add we had only been dating a few days.


Onto another incident.


We were right in the middle of a serious make out session, when he suddenly whispered to me. 'This makes me wanna do it so bad ...' He said.

I giggled, thinking he was joking, and we continued to make out.

Approximately thirty five seconds later, he asks me something. 'Do you want to ...?' He says, looking to me.

I paused a bit, not sure what he meant. Did I want to ... Oh! That.

'Um. No.' I say, shocked he'd even ask.

'You sure you don't want to ...?' He asked me yet again. Did I really have to answer? I mean, hello ... He wanted to have sex right then.

Right then.

On my family's couch.

With my little brother in the next room.

And my father in the basement.

...

Obviously, I replied no every time. Of course, a few times it took me a little longer than usual to respond, as his mouth was glued to mine. He took these as considerations, I guess, and the next second, he's got his todger out and halfway between my legs.

May I add we were both fully clothed. ((Idiot.))

'Um. Um, I said no ...' I said into his ear quietly.

'Oh ... Um. I know. I was just. I was just. Resting ... It ... comfortably.' He said, backpedaling.

Right, right. Resting your Who's Your Father right between my legs. That sounds like a comfy spot, I'd wager. I thought.

I jumped away from him and off the couch, and that was the end of those shenanigans. I broke up with the tosser the next day.


So obviously, after experiences like these, I don't see sex as such a great thing ... Again, I'm not sure if I'll ever bother, since I don't even want to get married any more, because guys are too worried about their pants, and not worried enough about other aspects of a relationship.

Guys are freakin' hot, that's for sure, but ... They're ... Complete jerks, and not the best things to be in a reationship with. o_O; ((Disclaimer: In my personal experiences and personal opinions!))

Plus --- Who needs a guy for sex! Us women have lots of other options! As in options you can buy at adult stores for reasonable prices.

XD; Hahaha, sorry, sorry.

And no, cool, I'm not gonna try dating a woman. 'Cause I know you're gonna suggest that!

I mean, seriously? Women are too bitchy, anyways. I'd never be able to stand being in a relationship with one --- I can hardly stand living with my own bitchiness some days. XD Hahahaha.


So yeah, that's my post and opinions and everything. XD; I stand by them --- Sex is overrated, men need to start thinking with their brain instead of their pants, and kids who have sex at a young age are foolish.