Personally, I want to wait till I'm at least 16... I'm 14 now and never had a boyfriend let alone a first kiss, so I actually might be waiting till 18-20 or marriage. I don't really have a reason why I want to wait till a specific age, I just do.... A friend of mine was going to lose her virginity last year to her off and on boyfriend of about 3 years (she's 14 as well)... the only thing was that they wanted to do it in a clothing store change room... I think that was just too weird... they didn't though and it was a good thing because they broke a few months after when she found out he was cheating... Another friend was actually raped by her cousins numerous times (which is just wrong) which is a horrible way to lose your virginity. Yet another friend is pregnant right now because of just one mistake. She's keeping the baby, and her boyfriend left her because of her choice.
I have one question that relates... There are people who don't think anal or oral counts as losing your virginity... Do you think that getting raped doesn't count as well?
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