haha wow i feel weird after reading this thread because i think like a total BOY.
When i get married [or rather make a commitment to be with someone for a long time because marriage is a sham
] and Im like 40 years old and everythings going south Im not going to CARE or be offended if my partner wants to go and have sex with loads of 20 year olds,
if they can actually get into bed with one who am i to stop the guy i love from havin fun and a massive ego boost from sleeping with women who are gonna be alot more attractive than my saggy self?
it just doesnt make sense to me this whole jealousy thing...fair enough if they fall in love with someone else..then i'd be devestated but sex?
personally I wouldnt want to have sex wth loads of different people, but i am a girl. The difference is i can accept that men are men and are always going to want to sleep with everything.
why be that awful nagging wife who gets cheated on because she's unrealistic and isnt somebody their husband can talk to? I'd rather know evrything about my guy, the bad and the good, the feelings he has for people other than me etc etc,
i guess cuz i'd expect the same deal from him. I'm under no illusion that monogamy doesnt work. maybe for some people but not for me. long term monogamy jus doesnt seem sensible to me unless you allow each other space to flirt etc. obviously it would need a long set of rules and alot of trust but i would never be with somebody for a long time unless there was that trust.
anyway ON TOPIC: viriginity. the right age...hmm. well i lost mine at 15 in awful circumstances and i regret it but eh. theres nothing i can do about that...and you learn from your bad choices.
I agree with others, its not the age but your state of mind and the person you do it with.
