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Originally Posted by chemi
well if that was directed at me i think if you re read my post i didnt say i'd let my husband CHEAT. I'd just let them sleep with other people as long as they told me and were honest with me.
if they were CHEATING on me, i.e: lying to me or having a RELATIONSHIP with another woman then theyd be out the door ina second.
hey i plan to be my partner's BEST FRIEND and expect them to be able to tell me anything. and if they wanted to sleep with someone else and told me and i didnt have to meet her [there would be alot of rules lol] then whatever. god. i'd still be the one living with him and sharing his life.
i know my views are weird but it doesn't make me a PUSHOVER.
i seem to remember you being critisised for your more unusual views in another thread and hating it so forgive me if i'm a little annoyed by your comment.
edit: oh and i should add if it wasnt directed at me please disregard this message :P  |
I'm not sure if it was you or not --- Let me check first. XD; ((I have a very bad memory sometimes. ><))
Ahh, yes, it was your post. Re-reading it now, I admit --- You didn't actually say 'cheat' anywhere ... As I said, I have a bad memory ... I should have re-read it earlier, before replying. x_X
So, you'd have rules and limitations and everything ... I understand now what you mean.
But, I still do not agree with it ... It's so weird, because I feel very uncomfortable even
thinking about it. @_@;
It's not that I'm a tight-ass about the subject of sex or anything, either --- I'm just not sure
what it is! I guess it's because it's such a complete opposite view of what I've ever thought. x_x It's not you personally, either ... Similar posts in this thread also give me an uncomfortable feeling.
I'm trying to figure out what it is, but I'm not sure yet. Perhaps it's because of I have a very intense loyal personality? Or maybe it's that I think people could do better? Fear of society beginning to 'de-evolve'? I don't know ... It's just unsettling to me.
Which is strange, because I was
just saying to a friend about how I'm so desensitized over other things --- Like news reports about murders, tortures, mindless killings, war reports, extreme horror films, and so on ... Any of those things, I just regard with a blank stare. But this gives me a creepy feeling? GAH. WTF IS UP WITH ME.
-_-;
Oh well, it'll be interesting for me to figure out something new about myself, at any rate. XD;;
PS: Apologies for my other post --- I've been the very outspoken/angry young women type lately, haha ... And I forget that just a short while ago I was quieter and content to just avoid things, or only comment super politely. I'm a raging beast as of late. >>; ((And yeah, it's always annoying when someone randomly disagrees with you directly. I wouldn't use such a strong a word as hate, though!)) But at any rate, your choices are yours, and they aren't hurting me directly --- I gotta keep that in mind. x.x
PPS: Tsk. A long post of mine, yet again, that no one will actually read in full.
