^^ no problem. i totally get how you feel about the whole thing. and no doubt, most people feel this way and that's fine. i accept i'm a freak.lol
for whatever reason i just see it differently, if i could find somebody who i have such a massive level of trust with I couldnt imagine "doing better." for me that would be the best i could hope for.
Its not even that this is something i
require in a relationship hahah
i dont want people to think i'm striving to find a guy who wants to sleep with other people. i just wouldnt be very surpised or outraged by the idea.
sorry everyone by the way for going so completely off topic
cool and puzzlegirls debate brings up interesting points though!