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Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie
haha not only has he not turned up at my house, hes gone out skating with hsi friends!
shows how much he cares doesnt it.
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boy can i relate.. :/
As well as the romantic gesture thing.
My boyfriend doesn't even do anything romantic on special occassions anymore. We didn't do anything special on Valentine's Day. He skated for the most part, and then I spent the night at his house and watched a movie. That's it. I even asked him if we could go out to dinner (Olive Garden) and we didn't. He has no money basically ever, so he never buys me anything really. The first year and a half we were together, he was pretty romantic with just the way he acted, but I've
never received flowers from him or anyone for that matter.. he better give me some sometime! >.< I think the sweetest thing he's ever done is write me a cute card for valentine's day 2 years ago. He spent a lot of time on it ripping up stickers and putting them on there in his own way, it was COVERED completely except for where he wrote. Oh, and he wrote me a poem one time. that was cute too
but besides that, he doesn't really do anything "romantic". I really wish he would sometimes, especially now because all he does is skate with his friends now. I feel bad and selfish for saying this because i can see that he's happy, but i liked it better when he didn't have a lot of friends at all.
I buy him boards ALL the time, i buy him skate shoes ALL the time because he needs at
least one pair a month. I even used to take time to film him, but he has friends to do that for him now.
[I'm really sorry this is so long. Maybe it should be in the rant thread, but i think i'm almost done.... x.x]
about you thinking of breaking up with your boyfriend
bonbon, i think they're right^ to think about your relationship as a whole. For me, my boyfriend can be really inconsiderate and he's made me cry a few times for reasons similar to the bus situation. He's made me feel abandoned at times before. I never make him feel that way, ever! So it feels very unfair to me. But to be without his love, he's my ambition. When we met, he made me want to be a better person. He's done so much for me without knowing it. And I think every relationship has their off times. Especially long term ones. I've been with him for 3 years now, but I still feel excited to see him. I'm not bored of him, and i don't think he's bored with me. We love each other more than anyone before, so I think as long as that still applies, we won't be breaking up anytime soon even though sometimes I cry.
Oh, and he HATES it when i cry, which makes me cry more. Like whenever I cry, he doesn't usually try to make me feel better anymore, he just wants to leave. THAT makes me think about ending it sometimes, but then after a day or two, i'll forget all about it because of all the other good things...
But if it's a Continuous thing like he makes you cry
all the time and maybe for different reasons, then maybe he isn't good for you..
Just think about it long and hard before you make a decision, you might end up regretting it. Although like cool said, you're a super hottie and would be able to find someone else perhaps much better for you and in no time at all.. ^^;;;; but still!! <3