Thanks Kavi
my idea is just to let him sweat it a bit. not answer any calls (not tht ive had any to answer) and not reply to anything if he sends it. then he'll realise how upset i am without me having to shout at him or anything, and will hopefully realise that things need to change.
i dont want to break up with him, i love him, im just sickof being so down
ahh well. we shall just have to see what happens.