16 is a good age. my husband and i are 16 and we have made love like 4 times. and every single time we make love it is out of love not for the feeling. when you do it with your lover try to find a comfortable place to do it instead of a movie theater, stair cases at a hotel or the beach (its great doing it at the beach, but its better when there isnt tons of people there) making out on the beach is just as good too. and even if you have had sex, it doesnt automatically mean you lost your virginity, scientifically yes, but basically no. a virginity is something you give to someone intenstionally, just keep that in mind. and some people think making oral love to someone means losing your virginity, and im sure by now you have noticed i dont use the term sex very often, thats cause i think if you are having sex out of love then you should say "making love" the meaning is in the term. i hate it when my husband sometimes says sex, to me if you say "we had sex" it makes it sound like you did it for the feeling of it. thats just my opinion though. and try not to get addicted, alot of people i know do. i try really really hard not to get my husband and i addicted. we do it every 2 weeks, and we are in a long distance marriage, we have been for a year and 6 months ^-^ . its ok to have sex as long as you are deeply in love with your lover, i promise if you do it when you are deeply and truly in love the experience will be really really passionate. i hope i answered your question, if not you can always message me ^-^ .