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Guy help X3

sakura_and_sasuke_forever — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:39:02 GMT

Well there's this guy in my class this year,He's one of the nicest guys I ever met haha,We are pretty good friends to..It's just that he's transfering schools the 23..Which is on my B-day haha...

So I'm really shy around him and if he sits with me on the bus no one talks,I have no idea what to say to him and start a conversation.

I'm having a B-day party this Friday and all my friends said that I should invite him,and he's like begging me to invite him!~ haha! But i'm kinda scared,like I wanna,but then I don't =/ I mean,somehow my grandparents know I like him and always bug me about,I tell them it's not true but they keep bugging me xD So I'm scared that theyed pick on him to haha...But yea...I don't know..

Any advice?please!~? X3

Will you help me??

jrockdecoradoll — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 02:21:08 GMT

i dont know where else to post this so if it's in the wrong place im sorry D:

as the thread title says, i need some help

so there's this super cute guy that i like and he's said that he likes "those cute japan-ish girls" and i look nothing like them so i was wondering if any of you would be willing to donate any of your stuff to me?? ( i know this is lame but i'm rather desperate ) it doesnt have to be anything super fancy and expensive. just some cute items that you dont use or want anymore.

thank you so much!
<333

Do you like "Nice Guys"? Why? Why not?

WongGeGe — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:25:20 GMT

It is an insult to tell a guy he is a nice guy.

explain. comment. rant.

Do you let your boyfriend/crush win?

findyQ — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 07:58:35 GMT

idk if someone has asked this before but anywho..
{oh and if your a guy just replace boyfriend with girlfriend! sorry i forgot ^^;;;}

so tonight i was talking on facebook with my crush of 2 years XD and hes just now acting like hes into me (theres alot more to this story but i'll stay on topic lol) so anyway we've been having sorta a friendly random compation on who can get the most songs on their playlist (playlist.com) and he has 165 and he was beating me for a while and then i found a bunch and now i have 180. he told me he finds alot of his fav songs on pandora radio and that for some reason it wasn't working. and then all of the sudden he was just like "ok ima head to bed" maybe he was just tired? = =" and before he left he said "i will admit it now i probly will never catch up lol" and every time i told him what number i had he kept writing "... .... ....." i felt so bad! T_T i was gloating a bit but i was all in good silly fun. now im worried im too conpetitive!

sorry for my novel of a explanation XD

but anyway back the question. Do you/Have you let you Boyfriend/Crush win?

i mean i've read guys like to feel confedint and like they're "strong" or whatever XD but im dont wanna be some sissy prissy "omg you liek always win, your so good!!!" i like winning and i dont wanna be all fake and helpless

and i'll talk to him tomorrow so i'll see if maybe he was just tired and not upset >.<

Please post your opinion! im very curious and i'd love to read it! =]

I need help moving on...

WongGeGe — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 04:24:18 GMT

i can't stop thinking about her... i get jealous whenever she is around guys... This pretty much the first time i got turned down by a friend im REALLY am into...if it was a complete stranger i wouldn't give a **** being turned down... but i force myself to be happy and keep my head up around her.

how can i move on? nothing seems to work. how long does this last?

the age-old "there's plenty of fish in the sea" bull doesnt apply when she's the only one i want...

any tips? your personal experience? ...open to suggestions (just don't suggest books...dont feel like reading novels)

(i really don't want to go into depression b/c i have an interview this weekend LOL) but this has been going on for a week now...

**UPDATE**...it's been a week after i posted this, now i could care less, thanks everyone! :P

Dealing with being turned down

WongGeGe — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 02:21:07 GMT

How do you deal with being turned down by someone you are close to?

...do you try to improve yourself to "win their heart"?

...do you move on?

...do you stay friends, but secretly stay hopelessly in love?

Getting to know a stranger?

Jessi-chan — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 00:36:07 GMT

Alright, I'll try and make this a long story short, but let's be honest, I'm horrible at that.

Alright, I'm in Highschool now, and I before that, there was a guy I liked, and I thought he liked me, too. But then, the first time we converse with each other since Middle School, and he's a total jerk! Maybe it's because I've never talked to him when his friends were around, but by the time him and his friends left, he dumped on the game system I was playing, the game I was playing and got strawberry milk in my hair, even when his friends weren't paying attention to me! Anyone who knows me knows that I hold a grudge, he knows it, too, but he still took the time to trash everything I was doing. I was quite hurt by it all.

So I've tried to move on, detach myself from him in every way. We don't have any classes together, so it's pretty easy, but I still avoid some classes he comes out of when I walk by, and I don't make eye contact with him anymore. I think he's taken the hints, because when I looked up once, he wasn't making eye contact with me like he used too.

Now there is another guy I think I might like. He hangs out with a group that is semi-attached to the group of upper-classmen I hang out with. Anyways, he always seems to be where I'm looking. Seriously, I'm not making this up. I'll be going up stairs, and he'll cut me off. I'll be heading for a doorway, and he'll come through it. I turn away from my locker, he's walking to his. I'm over ninety percent sure he doesn't know I excist, but it must seem like I'm stalking him, I swear. Before, I was content to let it slide, let him think whatever he wants or not notice me, but now it's getting to the point where I'm making a concious effort to avoid him.

It happened after an afternoon class one day. Earlier my friend had made a comment about hating walking up stairs, because your face is always in someones butt, and someone is always in your butt. Well, he came out of the foods room when I was walking from Drafting and headed towards the stairs, where I needed to be. We have lockers across the hall, so I know WHY he was going up the stairs, but I was so embarrassed I just kept walking and ended up going to French class Ill-prepared. I'm afraid this is going to get out of hand, so I'm changing my approach.

If I can't avoid him, I'm going to have to get to know him. Does anyone know how to get to know a stranger? When I said he kinda knew my group of upper-classmen friends, I really mean kinda. Like, he hangs out with a guy that hangs out with us only when noone else is around. It's very detached. I'm very nervous when I'm near him, to the point where I'll curse loudly and avert my gaze, as well as change whereever I'm going. So I obviously need either good tips for ignoring, or good tips for getting to know someone.