The dead decorachan

the123girl · #1 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 06:43 PM

xD The dead decorachan, the last time I wore actually more than four or even three bracelets had to be months ago. I find myself buying bitchy lolita clothes that are way too much money, and browsing ebay for frills and lace. Really, wtf? And even after the last incident at the mall, I find myself not even wanting to wear lolita. I wore a skirt and a short blouse, stockings, the platform shoes, a pink umbrella, hair curled, and the policemen at the mall harassed me. They followed my two friends and I around, and asked constantly why I wore it, and basically said that I wasn't allowed to wear it. I was tired of the stares, and what I was wearing really wasn't... bad? Eventually when my best friend and I were leaving, the cop forced us out, and one said "It's not October, it's not Halloween."

So I guess I'm bored of lolita since all it does is catch long and awkward staring glares, and I'm especially bored of decora since... everyone comes at you and stares blankly, and then finally ask "DO YOU LIKE HELLO KITTY?"

Even if I enjoy wearing lolita and decora for myself, it doesn't pay off.

michitak · #2 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 09:28 PM

That's crazy. Where do you live?

suzushii · #3 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by xDestin

the policemen at the mall harassed me.

He's not a policeman, policemen go to police academy. That guy's probably a douche, with a complex of over-importance. Why follow you, you weren't a possible thief or something, sheeeeesh.

BonBonBarbie · #4 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 10:25 PM

:O DESTIN NO THATS SO SAD! :*(
i cant believe ur not decora anymore
u were like asiajams official decora girl!

you should never listen to what others say
we love ur look
and were knowledgable on asian and cute fashion!

★ A l i c e · #5 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 10:53 PM

Noo, it's so sad that you don't like them anymore.. ;_; I always really enjoyed seeing all of your new outfits. But, I can understand your reason for not wearing them anymore.. People tell you to not care about awkward stares and what people think, but it really is easier said than done. I mean, I wear just a hoodie with bunny ears and I feel so concious of what people would think.

Just wear whatever it is you feel comfortable with. :] I definitely look forward to seeing future outfits, no matter what style it is you decide to wear.

the123girl · #6 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 11:21 PM

=_= I live in the state below NY. xD Haha

;_; Its like I dont have any inspiration anymore or know why to do it. xD It makes me really upset. I go into clarie's now and say how EVERYTHING reminds me of decora. It makes me so sad. I can't stop buying lolita clothes, maybe I should stop. xD But I always think I'm too old for decora... I don't know...

I mean, I'm a senior in highschool next year. And all of these girls look so much older. -holds head- But the guy I like says that he liked my decora, I think. I need some inspiration, I just feel like I stand by myself when I wear decora. xD Its like I lost an important part of me.

phren · #7 (**permalink**) 06-02-2008, 11:49 PM

what those 'policemen' are evil >:C they really shouldn't be doing that.

awwaww i guess you should do what you want nano.. it's a nice idea though that even if lots of people stare, or think you look strange, there's people also who silently admire. C: kuku i really like that thought.

mizz.pandora · #8 (**permalink**) 06-03-2008, 01:30 PM

Well.. I love laces and frills, but I don't really like decora and lolita..
Actually you can still wear your lace and frill clothes, but try to mix it with plain and casual clothes..

I'd say that policemen is very annoying..
Why should they care of others' clothing?
That is none of their business, your not wearing a beggar costume or something..

Cailey · #9 (**permalink**) 06-03-2008, 03:06 PM

oh my goodness i can't believe someone would harass you to the point of kicking you out for what you're wearing... that is just going to an unreasonable extreme. i'm sorry you had to deal with that... people are jerks but not everyone is. you shouldn't feel about about how you dress ever! if you just dress how you want to then people will eventually respect you for being yourself <3 i know that personally it took me YEARS of dressing a bit off before people started to accept that i wasn't going to change regardless of them making fun of me or threatening to beat me up. i mean, i was more decora in high school and i guess it can be something you can just grow out of... but it doesn't mean you have to stop dressing awesome