Dear _________,

[Dutchie]

Dear Laura,
I can't wait to meet you!! it's going to be fun, just like my 'little' trip

Dear Casi Leigh
your dear car post made me laugh, I hope your car is going to get better soon, if not then we should collect money to make it better!!

Dear soccer team
Please don't win! i DON'T Like you, and I don't like the orange madness, it's okay with queensday, but not because of soccer. (many Dutch people are going to hate me because I said this!!)

Dear Dutch People,
Please don't hate me because I don't like soccer and orange madnes!! don't kill me!!

[SeiOhtori]

Dear Asiajam forums,
Why do I always keep comming back to you? xD you are probably one of the only forums I can never stay away from.

Dear myself,
Quit procrastinating, dammit! *pokes self* Your hardwork will pay off soon and you'll feel good about finishing your sewing projects and homework.

Dear Sami,
I'm so curious about how you are doing now. I hope you're happy and doing well in school. It's been almost over 6 months...

Dear Kiyoshi,
You are the cutest little thing ever! x3 I wish I could spend more time with you since I see you only once a week. But of course, your grandma, grandpa, and mommy is too busy playing with you.

I can tell when you get older your gonna be a gamer just like me, right? ;D Because you did break my old keyboard. And you won't stop trying to play with my new one. You're such a brat.

Dear Shell Spring,
Thank you so much for the pink bow socks, and pink ruffled dress. I felt so poor before I got them.

love,
Sei

[haruhisuzumiya]

Dear Love,

I know you want to move back home, but I'm not ready yet. I still want to go to college before hand, and if we move back, what are the chances that we'll go to college then? I know I said I would go, but I don't really want to...

[the_zorya]

Dear Ex,

Why do you keep calling me?
Honestly.


Dear Spiders,

Please. Please, Please, Please, Please.
never huddle on my bed again :x
i will seriously never feel comfortable sleeping in my own bed again.

[diadori]

dear friends,

y'all should invite me to hang out sometime. i get quite bored sitting here by myself all day every day.


dear fruit fly,

die please.

edit:nvm, you're dead now anyways. (i think this thread had magic powers).

[Cailey]

Originally Posted by diadori

dear fruit fly,

die please.

edit:nvm, you're dead now anyways. (i think this thread had magic powers).

best.

hahaha



dear boyfriend,
don't fake ask me to marry you as a joke. that is way too mean. what if i said yes?! also, it would be awesome if you could convince your brother to move out of your apartment so i can move in and use his room as my closet.

sincerely,
cailey

[Kavi]

Dear friend,
I really hope that if your girlfriend keeps acting the same as she has been, you will see the light and end it. But if she realizes that she really cares for you enough to see you, then I wish you two the best and I won't have to say "I told you...", and also, best wishes when she goes off to college and you're still in high school.
Love always,
Kayla


Dear Lily,
You are on my lap right now, but I will soon push you off because you're a smelly chihuahua and need a bath or something. Also, stop licking the blankets and floor, because there's nothing yummy on them. :/
Love,
Kayla.

Dear Shawn,
I love you with all my heart. I feel unincluded when you go skate with your friends everyday. I guess I just miss the times when I was the one to skate with you and film you every day. Now you act immature sometimes and it bugs, but that's okay because i know it's because your friends are around and you're still a little kid inside. It hurt me, for some reason, when you said "It's a guy thing" when you said you wanted to go to San Francisco or San Jose on Thursday. Just know, I'm not paying for gas or anything for that matter if I'm not going, so don't even ask. Be safe. I love you.
Love always and forever,
Kaylabuggy

Dear officer from Nevada,
You can shove everything you have up your ass because you're a jerk and obviously discriminate on californians or young people or SOMEThing. I really don't like you and I really hope you crash your damn car and don't die. Giving a $97 ticket to someone who OBVIOUSLY didn't know that specific law seeing as how it's only a law of Nevada and clearly we were putting NO ONE in danger! is just messed up! Especially when people that go by are doing the SAME THING and you do NOTHING to them!!!
Hate,
that girl in the passenger's seat.

[yiin]

拝啓 亮くん,
あなたがいなくてたくさん~! ワ...(T_T) 久しぶり, ネ?
寂しい気持ちに　なりました。blahblahblahblah
逢いたい
逢いたい
逢いたい
逢いたい


Love,
SAMMIE


Dear Arturo,
I like you but i think that we're not meant for each other. You are probably going to hate me for doing this to you but it's what's best for us. Maybe.. we should be friends?

Sincerely,
SAMMIE

[Nitsue-chan]

Dear Tuna,

I'm glad you like your Catnip! ;D


Dear best friend,

Yeah...you're leaving tomorrow to Tampa, FL for 2 weeks. I kinda envy you! You might get to see my bf. =[ Take me with you? I can fit in nicely into ur bag, right?


Love,
Me

[D I G I C H A N]

Dear sanity

Contact me when you get this.

0___o

Love Digi

[BonBonBarbie]

dear bf
you acted like such a knob today. i walked for an hour and a half to surprise you after college and bring you bus fare so you didnt have to walk back to my house. in other words, i walked an hour and a half just to come back home again. you didnt appreciate it and just threw it back in my face as though it didnt matter. but it did to me. you wouldnt recognise a nice romantic gesture anyway, would you. because you never do them for me. you used to always write me letters and bring my flowers. you do none of that anymore, and dont apreciate it when i do it to you. so im resentful of you because of that.
i always convince myself that youre gonna do smth nice for me, and then you dont and i just get disappointed. every time. remember when i sent you that letter? and i made sure you got it after your first day of work? i put my return address on the top as a direct hint, and so you wouldnt even need to try that hard to send me one back. i even gave u a stamp. and you still didnt.
right now im thinking of ending it with you.
i had to get the bus home crying today, with all your friends on it. do you know how humiliating that is?

regards,
heather

[the_zorya]

BonBonBarbie,
:[
you made me feel so sad!! i know what it's like to try and be romantic for your other and them not appreciate it in the least. when i was dating my ex, i would do very simple but romantic things for him and him not ever acknowledge them or do anything romantic towards me. and i seriously thought about breaking up with him just because he acted like the relationship didn't matter anymore (or at least, in my mind that's how i felt because if you care about someone you try to show them by doing little romantic things for them and when that stopped, i felt like our relationship stopped).

ANYHOW.

my whole point of this long post is to say that i'm really sorry. relationships have their ups and downs and to be quite honest, now that i look back on it, i would much rather have my ex back and him not acknowledge the things i did for him than to not have him at all. but then again, i will probably find someone much better.

if you are seriously debating on whether or not to end it with your bf, then really take a look at your relationship as a whole. not just how it is at the moment.

ANYHOW. (again)...
i'm sure things will brighten up and no matter what happens, know that better things are always sure to come no matter what decisions are made and that we jammers are always here for you. i'm sending you happiness and good vibes right away, dearest :]

[BonBonBarbie]

zoryaaaa you seriously are the best
thankyou so much for your help.
i get a bit irrationally angry and it clouds over everything when im upset i love him a lot but it just feels like unless its a special occasion he wont make any effort and he always used to i bitch at him all the time about it but it feels like i shouldnt have to ask for him to do nice things, cos then hes only doing them cos i ask not because of his own initiative.

[haruhisuzumiya]

Dear Bonbonbarbie,

My boyfriend does that too. I'll often do something romantic, or something slightly romantic and then he won't notice it. I don't mind, because I know he loves me and men are clueless. But if it's something like turning you down when you're already dating, like the bus incident, I would talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. When I do this with my boyfriend, it usually helps our relationship and then he's happy and does more things for me. ^^

[BonBonBarbie]

i dont know. im just dead confused about it.
i really want things to get better but he always says like ''ohh its never enough for you is it?'' and its like no, its not. because you DONT do enough. you may be happy just to spend time with me but i need more than that.
i wonder if he'll come round later. he tried ringing twice, but i didnt answer. if i were him id come round but it seems me and him are very different. i know though that if he doesnt come round, ill just be dissapointed in him cos i kinda expected it of him. its just horrible to get your hopes up and for them then to just let you down.

[AmyLou]

Dear my school

School, you suck. You are stupid even though you pride yourself on being one of the best in our area. You can't even send detentions to the right people!! Just because there is a girl in my school who has almost the exact same name as me, doesn't mean you give up searching for the right Amy!!

Basically, stop sending detentions to the wrong person, stop messing up my GCSE timetables (they're important if you havent noticed - stop blaming the computer) and stop pissing me and my parents off whenever we get a letter saying something about the other Amy (she's a bad ass but she's really nice)

If you clear this up, I'll be forever grateful instead of being dragged around school being shouted at and blamed for supposedly me messing up my own GCSE timetable.

Cheers,
Amy

[Dutchie]

Dear grandparents,

I feel so bad when you almost had to cry when I said goodbye, I"m going to miss you too, and I'll will think of you when I'm away, saying goodbye is much harder then I though it was going to be but everything will be alright, being able to hug you again and say hi will be really nice when I come back!

With love, your granddaughter,

[cool]

Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie

dear bf
you acted like such a knob today. i walked for an hour and a half to surprise you after college and bring you bus fare so you didnt have to walk back to my house. in other words, i walked an hour and a half just to come back home again. you didnt appreciate it and just threw it back in my face as though it didnt matter. but it did to me. you wouldnt recognise a nice romantic gesture anyway, would you. because you never do them for me. you used to always write me letters and bring my flowers. you do none of that anymore, and dont apreciate it when i do it to you. so im resentful of you because of that.

Dear BonBon,

Wow! That's really sweet of you to do that for your BF.... and it's horrible how it turned out. I can't help but feel that there's something missing in this story though. I mean, what guy would throw the tickets back at his gf who's walked an hour and a half for him? Now, logic would lead me down 2 roads. One, he's really a monster. But then, that's illogical too, how can you fall in love with a monster in the first place? Second, perhaps he didn't like being surprised? I mean, could it be that he's planned to do something without you today and didn't feel the 'surprise' as a romantic gesture but a 'plan spoiler'? I mean, guys just react, without first thinking things thru. He may realize what a jerk he's been after he's got time to muse about the situation, but at the moment, he may just be heated up... I dunno... really..

i always convince myself that youre gonna do smth nice for me, and then you dont and i just get disappointed. every time. remember when i sent you that letter? and i made sure you got it after your first day of work? i put my return address on the top as a direct hint, and so you wouldnt even need to try that hard to send me one back. i even gave u a stamp. and you still didnt.
right now im thinking of ending it with you.
i had to get the bus home crying today, with all your friends on it. do you know how humiliating that is?

regards,
heather

I am thinking that either he's romantic or he's not.. Usually a guy is all romantic when he's met a girl for the first time and wants to get with her. But then once he gets into the BF/GF relationship, the guys always gets lazy.. at least for most guys. It's hard to find that prince charming who's always charming. And chances are if you do meet one, you'll get tired of his romantic gestures eventually and it'll be harder and harder for him to impress you and he's just going to get more frustrated. I saw this on a TV show once, where a guy was always romantic towards his gf, like putting notes here and there, and giving her flowers, but eventually she just get tired of it and don't appreciate it anymore.. she ended up cheating on him for another guy who's not romantic at all... I know this sounds strange, but everything becomes stale after a while...

WOuldn't it be easier to expect less in a relationship and just enjoy each other's company?

It doesn't make sense I am sure... haha... I know women likes to be romanticised.. but men are thick in the head most of the time...

Originally Posted by the_zorya

BonBonBarbie,
my whole point of this long post is to say that i'm really sorry. relationships have their ups and downs and to be quite honest, now that i look back on it, i would much rather have my ex back and him not acknowledge the things i did for him than to not have him at all. but then again, i will probably find someone much better.

Good point the zorya... I think you will find someone that's more suitable for you.. in due time.. I have always believed in that!

if you are seriously debating on whether or not to end it with your bf, then really take a look at your relationship as a whole. not just how it is at the moment.

Another great advice... Try to see if he's the guy you would be comfortable with over the long term period.. You can't be on a high forever without going down... no relationship is ever always on a high.. at most for like a year.. or so...

On another hand, I think more guys need to learn more about women and their needs.. like doing small romantic gestures now and then...

that we jammers are always here for you. i'm sending you happiness and good vibes right away, dearest :]

Yay... all jammers is jamming-you-good -vibes-signals right now!!

Originally Posted by haruhisuzumiya

Dear Bonbonbarbie,

My boyfriend does that too. I'll often do something romantic, or something slightly romantic and then he won't notice it. I don't mind, because I know he loves me and men are clueless. But if it's something like turning you down when you're already dating, like the bus incident, I would talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. When I do this with my boyfriend, it usually helps our relationship and then he's happy and does more things for me. ^^

Ah, great advice... always talk to your bf about your issues, because let's face it, guys are really thick in the head.. women are more intuitive and can easily read faces, but men can't.... this is a physical difference... Men's brains will never know why you are sad, no matter how much hints you leave... so, just tell em how you're feeling, don't just expect that they'll know.. this is one of the most frustrating thing about women to men.. My friends and I will always sit down and when we joke about women, this one particular thing will come up... 'My gf is mad at me and she says is i dont' know why, i should not ask.. she thinks I am a mind reader?"

Remember, men don't know.. it's as simple a solution as that.. don't act mad, don't expect them to know your needs... ask for it, tell them how you're feeling...

Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie

zoryaaaa you seriously are the best
thankyou so much for your help.
i get a bit irrationally angry and it clouds over everything when im upset i love him a lot but it just feels like unless its a special occasion he wont make any effort and he always used to i bitch at him all the time about it but it feels like i shouldnt have to ask for him to do nice things, cos then hes only doing them cos i ask not because of his own initiative.

This is one difference between men/women that i think is hard to solve, unless women and men knows and understands the basic differences between the sexes... Men thinks that if they do something big, like they may save up for months, then buy you a very expensive gift and then he'll think that that should be enough for keep you over for a year or so.. but women, on the other hand requires little things all the time... if only men learned how easy it is to make their ladies happy... they don't have to buy those big expensive gifts.. haha...

[BonBonBarbie]

haha
thanks cool
youre a star.
he still hasnt turned up at my house.
im starting to think he just doesnt care tbh
i hate feeling unapreciated and worthless, it shouldnt happen.

[BonBonBarbie]

haha not only has he not turned up at my house, hes gone out skating with hsi friends!
shows how much he cares doesnt it.




dear little chinese guy on the bus today,
thank you for giving me that tissue and saying nice things to make me feel better but no, i dont think i have the potential to be a model, i think you were just trying to get in there :P lol. but thanks you made me smile
love
heather xxx