The 'I feel' thread. - Page 14

laura-aap · #**261** (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Keichan

@laura-aap
They probably did it wrong and hurt a muscle >___<... I think (as demoipourvous suggested) a (cold) compress should help, but I'm not sure >_O".

noo... it needs to go in a muscle. your arm or but! Im so happy it's my arm XD

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Originally Posted by demoipourvous

Owie! Do you think a compress will help? I'm not sure if warm or cold is better. Was that caused by the injection? Or is that a different thing?

I did but Im alwyas too busy so I forget it all the time. :S

StrawberryShortcake · #**262** (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 10:28 PM

I feel bad for one of my online friends. She really needs a lot of prayer and hope right now.

forsheezy · #**263** (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 11:30 PM

I feel... really annoyed. I've got alot of bug bites & I just watered the plants, and now it looks like it might rain soon -_-

BonBonBarbie · #**264** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 01:12 AM

i feel really confused.
i dont know whether to break up with my bf or not.
i dont know whether loving him is enough, or whether i want a fresh start or not, because right now im really not happy.

Kavi · #**265** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie

i feel really confused.
i dont know whether to break up with my bf or not.
i dont know whether loving him is enough, or whether i want a fresh start or not, because right now im really not happy.

I hope your days will shine very brightly in the end

Kavi · #**266** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 01:47 PM

I feel very physically tired and it's 7am...
But I feel very happy about being home schooled now.
And that i'll be going to the state fair tomorrow :P

*The state fair is just a fair/carnival thing in the state of California that comes once a year*

redpixie · #**267** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie

i feel really confused.
i dont know whether to break up with my bf or not.
i dont know whether loving him is enough, or whether i want a fresh start or not, because right now im really not happy.

I feel so bad for piling all my crap on you when you've got your own problems to be worrying about >.<

Do you know exactly why you're not happy? It could just be thoughts of uni confusing you, or something like that. Have you guys spoken about this properly yet?

I hope you feel better soon, and find what you want <3

BonBonBarbie · #**268** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 03:10 PM

awhhh sweetie no! dont feel like that i dont see it as you piling crap on me, its nice to help!

well today he came round and i told him about how i felt and stuff and said i love him a real lot, but im not happy, and with the chance a fresh start at uni and new people its the ideal time to kinda break up, so im not tied down and everything, and so i can explore new things, blah blah.
But we both do really love each other which is hard, because itd be so much easier if we didnt. but neither of us can take the arguments and stuff.
So we decided to just 'see each other' and not be bf and gf anymore. Like we still can hug, kiss, have sex, etc. but its more like dating. and when i go to uni its not official, so there won't be any like reporting back, or restraints, i can kinda do what i want.
But then the thought of him with someone else makes me feel sick. we were talking about it and said there was no way he would get another girlfriend, or have sex or even kiss anyone else when i was still in his life, which seemed like such a massive commitment, staying faithful to someone who wasnt faithful to you. i dont know how he could do it, i know i couldnt. But he said he just wants me in his life and wants me to be happy.
So im a bit confused. we had sex after talking about all of this, and it was really good. And also, after we lay and cuddled up and he kept saying 'i love you' and stuff, which was nice but kinda odd, as when we were bf and gf we never really cuddled that much after sex. it was lovely and he liked it too.
Its just weird cos i keep getting rly upset thinking about telling people we have broken up and stuff, cos it makes it official, so we decided not to tell anyone and just see how things go. im just a bit confused about the whole situation. what position im in, etc. its weird that after we decided to just 'see' and date each other, we were more lovey than ever. maybe itll be good for us. it just feels weird feeling free to do whatever i want at uni, and still have him as well. it seems like it wont work, you cant have your cake and eat it, and all that.

Kavi · #**269** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 03:21 PM

I think a lot of girls who have monogomous relationships with a guy feel the need to explore the world a little bit before being tied down. From seeing my sister do this, it looks like it was a mistake for her because now she really wishes she had her old boyfriend back. Now that she's done exploring, she found that she wants to be with him and only him. He held on to her for about a year and a half after they broke up, but then he just got fed up with it. Now he's moved on and she hasn't.

It's like, you never know what you have until it's really gone. And then it's too late to go back.

If you really feel the need to explore other people though, by all means. If you guys argue a lot... i don't know. Maybe it is good for you guys to do what you're doing. Maybe when you go to school you'll miss him a lot and you'll want to be with him again, or maybe you won't and you'll have a great time and meet lots of new people and maybe fall in love with someone else..
I'm not really giving advice, more like examples? i don't know... :|
I hope neither of you have regrets though, regrets like that are no gewd

michitak · #**270** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 03:24 PM

Oh BonBon, you poor girl. I know exactly how you feel. I had the same problem. I was in the sort of situation that you are in, and I couldn't even imagine my guy being with another girl the way he was with me. Eventually, I got used to it. We are really good friends, and I would go nuts without him in my life. I just had to understand that he's a person too.

I think the things your bf is telling you now are only a result of what's going on in your relationship. Like the cuddling and what not, things that aren't normal for you guys.

It should be easier with you going away.

When do you leave? I only have 2 more days!!

BonBonBarbie · #**271** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 03:27 PM

i have about a month to go yet

i mean i dont know, for all we know, we could be back together in a few weeks or i could go to uni, sleep with someone else and he couldnt handle it or smth. i dont know :S its horrible not knowing what to call him anymore, i dont want him to be my 'ex' i still love him.

redpixie · #**272** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by BonBonBarbie

awhhh sweetie no! dont feel like that i dont see it as you piling crap on me, its nice to help!

well today he came round and i told him about how i felt and stuff and said i love him a real lot, but im not happy, and with the chance a fresh start at uni and new people its the ideal time to kinda break up, so im not tied down and everything, and so i can explore new things, blah blah.
But we both do really love each other which is hard, because itd be so much easier if we didnt. but neither of us can take the arguments and stuff.
So we decided to just 'see each other' and not be bf and gf anymore. Like we still can hug, kiss, have sex, etc. but its more like dating. and when i go to uni its not official, so there won't be any like reporting back, or restraints, i can kinda do what i want.

This sounds a lot like whats going on with me and my boyf, so as long as you're both happy with that then thats fine, I'm just worried that it might make moving to uni and leaving him behind that bit harder for you? I see why you don't wanna completely cut him out of your life, but its gonna get hard when you guys go from still 'seeing' each other to being in totally different places.

But then the thought of him with someone else makes me feel sick. we were talking about it and said there was no way he would get another girlfriend, or have sex or even kiss anyone else when i was still in his life, which seemed like such a massive commitment, staying faithful to someone who wasnt faithful to you. i dont know how he could do it, i know i couldnt. But he said he just wants me in his life and wants me to be happy.

I know the feeling. Remember what I said to you about my ex and that other girl and what I would or wouldn't forgive him for doing with her? Just be aware, that if you guys are still seeing each other now and hes still faithful to you, then things may get complicated for him when you go away. By still staying in his life and commiting him to you and you only is gonna make it hard for him when you eventually go. Did you commit to him when your still with him before you go? It sounds like hes holding on to you in the only way he feels he can.

So im a bit confused. we had sex after talking about all of this, and it was really good. And also, after we lay and cuddled up and he kept saying 'i love you' and stuff, which was nice but kinda odd, as when we were bf and gf we never really cuddled that much after sex. it was lovely and he liked it too.

Bit like make up sex right? It's always better when you've had an arguement or a fight and just wanna show the other person how much they mean to you. And the cuddling after takes me back to what I just said, he wants to keep hold of you however he feels he can.

Its just weird cos i keep getting rly upset thinking about telling people we have broken up and stuff, cos it makes it official, so we decided not to tell anyone and just see how things go. im just a bit confused about the whole situation. what position im in, etc. its weird that after we decided to just 'see' and date each other, we were more lovey than ever. maybe itll be good for us. it just feels weird feeling free to do whatever i want at uni, and still have him as well. it seems like it wont work, you cant have your cake and eat it, and all that.

I know how you feel about telling people about your situation, it just makes it seem too real. Just remember, that uni isnt all about sleeping around and getting drunk. Plenty of relationships have worked through uni based on trust. With me trying to win my ex back I know that I can still have fun at uni, and still have him. I've never felt the desire to experiment, but that might be because hes all I've ever had. Me and him have always ALWAYS been the perfect case study for "you don't know what you've lost until its gone". With you guys still seeing each other, you're not really seeing life without each other in full. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I see that you're maybe just trying to ween yourselves out of being so close to each other, but you're gonna wanna enjoy the first few weks of uni, without feeling like half your heart has just been left behind. I can't speak much because I know that still chasing my ex puts me in exactly the same position, so I guess i'm just looking out for you, I don't want you feeling like I have/do.

good luck whatever happens hun <3 I tried to word that as carefully as possible, especially knowing that I'm sorta speaking to both of you lol

Nattfall · #**273** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Keichan

@Nattfall
Once, a friend wrote a fanfic for me... and I had to wait 2 years (it might have been even longer) for the end XD~. It went from christmas, to new year's eve, to birthday and to next new year's eve.
Good luck & great ideas ^___^!

Aww, thank you <3 I actually finished it... at 4 o'clock in the morning xD But I was in fact quite pleased with how it came out in the end

Cailey · #**274** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 04:57 PM

My apartment flooded... all my things are ruined. I'm so upset because it happened at 3pm on friday, my landlords knew and didn't even call me even though my room was the worst. I didn't get there until 10:30 that night when my roommate (who's room didn't get flooded) called. My textbooks are destroyed. My clothes smell gross even though I washed them all yesterday... I have a tiny room so everything was on my floor. My violin, ruined. Shoes, bedframe, desk, shelves... everything. ugh.
When my landlord came over I tried to ask him what happened but just started crying. I have no money. I have absolutely not a penny to my name. Now I have to start over

My boyfriend will only let me sleepover on weekends... so I'm stuck with all these loud fans and dehumidifiers during the week. They'll be here until I move out. I was soooo close to getting out of here.

cool · #**275** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:18 PM

^ oh cailey... you have the worse sux season ever! I feel so bad for you.. when will things turn around? I hope soon!

Cailey · #**276** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:36 PM

yeah, its hard... i try to stay positive... i want things to get better soon. everytime i think things are looking up for me something really horrible like this will happen haha.

Cailey · #**277** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:40 PM

oh right AND on top of all that... when i was getting all my laundry together to wash yesterday... they were replacing our bathroom and kitchen sink and without asking just started THROWING all my stuff everywhere and took a bag of my clothes to prop open the door and put my shoes on top of piles of garbage... they even mixed in our dirty dishes with our clean dishes in the cupboards! they put dirty dishes in the MICROWAVE. what the hell!? i was so upset. i had everything from my room being dried in the living room and they just threw stuff on top of it. we told our landlady and she was really upset that they did that but said she couldn't do anything about it...
so today i have to clean even more even though the apartment is soooo hot from all these machines.

cool · #**278** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:41 PM

^ Apartment from HELL??

phren · #**279** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:42 PM

ahh bonbon -hug- i don't really have much relationship advice (i have never had a bf myself) but i hope so much you two can both work through this.. even if it means you break up for good, i just hope you can be happy .. also going to uni around the same time as you and i can understand you don't want anyone to be fully tied down to.. it's such a hard time for that D8

cailey.. that is just completely completely awful D8 i really feel for you .. hope soon things will manage to look up , <3 keep strong ~

Cailey · #**280** (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 05:42 PM

yes. definitely. this apartment has caused me nothing but grief.