The 'I feel' thread.

[xivorymoonx]

awww, everybody is so caring to each other's problems . It's really heartwarming to see al the posts showing sympathy and empathy and help to other's you don't really know but still care about <3
ya'll are so sweet =)

I feel...
happy, because I'm leaving Friday to go to North Carolina and I get to get outta hot sticky humid Floridaaaa!
And see my family who I love soo much <3
Aaand, my birthday is in about a week and a half and I get lots of shopping money and a whole day at this huge mall in NC =DDD I can't wait o ge lots of new clothes!

[Nattfall]

I feel guilty for avoiding my friend. I'm not picking up the phone when she calls me, I'm not answering her messages, I'm making excuses for not seeing her... and this morning I even turned my whole phone off to make sure she didn't contact me. Why? No reason, that's why I feel guilty. She hasn't done anything wrong, and I still treat her like dirt. She's always the one taking initiative for hanging out, and I go along if I bother. I've treated her like this for a long time now, and it wasn't until today that I actually attained a small amount of bad conscience. I think I feel that she's a bit... too much at times? As if she never gets tired of hanging out and wants to be with me as much as possible. And I'm not even thankful, I'm just asocial... But to tell you the truth, I think she's a bit annoying. I feel like an asshole for posting things like this behind her back. Like I said, she hasn't done anything wrong and she would never do something like that to me. I'm drowning in guilt, but I don't want to hang out with her to make things good again either.

[JunGaeHyuk]

Originally Posted by Nattfall

I feel guilty for avoiding my friend. I'm not picking up the phone when she calls me, I'm not answering her messages, I'm making excuses for not seeing her... and this morning I even turned my whole phone off to make sure she didn't contact me. Why? No reason, that's why I feel guilty. She hasn't done anything wrong, and I still treat her like dirt. She's always the one taking initiative for hanging out, and I go along if I bother. I've treated her like this for a long time now, and it wasn't until today that I actually attained a small amount of bad conscience. I think I feel that she's a bit... too much at times? As if she never gets tired of hanging out and wants to be with me as much as possible. And I'm not even thankful, I'm just asocial... But to tell you the truth, I think she's a bit annoying. I feel like an asshole for posting things like this behind her back. Like I said, she hasn't done anything wrong and she would never do something like that to me. I'm drowning in guilt, but I don't want to hang out with her to make things good again either.

aww... tell her you need some distance... "it's not you... it's me!.... TOO MUCH LOVE!" lol i know how you feel... i had a friend who was very clingy and ALWAYS wanted to do stuff... but i told him that i needed some space... and that i would call HIM if i wanted to hang out. so then he didn't bother me anymore... after a little while... a little bit of a LOT of while... i called him one day and said "let's hang out!" and i enjoyed his company so much more after that, because i was the "initiator" and he didn't 'nag' me anymore

[Nattfall]

Yeah, I've been trying to tell myself that I should say that to her, it's just that I'm so scared of hurting her feelings. I'm always like that, and I really, really wish I was more in-your-face, kinda. Not bursting out everything, but that I managed to tell people something in a proper way to make them understand. In fact, I'm a very not-empathetic person in real life, and I can almost never find the words to express myself orally. I know that this is probably the only way to make her understand, and she probably won't get offended at all, at least not so much that she starts hating me or something, I just have to gather up enough powers to tell her. Man... I wish it would just solve itself...

[mallorymaloney]

Originally Posted by Nattfall

I feel guilty for avoiding my friend. I'm not picking up the phone when she calls me, I'm not answering her messages, I'm making excuses for not seeing her... and this morning I even turned my whole phone off to make sure she didn't contact me. Why? No reason, that's why I feel guilty. She hasn't done anything wrong, and I still treat her like dirt. She's always the one taking initiative for hanging out, and I go along if I bother. I've treated her like this for a long time now, and it wasn't until today that I actually attained a small amount of bad conscience. I think I feel that she's a bit... too much at times? As if she never gets tired of hanging out and wants to be with me as much as possible. And I'm not even thankful, I'm just asocial... But to tell you the truth, I think she's a bit annoying. I feel like an asshole for posting things like this behind her back. Like I said, she hasn't done anything wrong and she would never do something like that to me. I'm drowning in guilt, but I don't want to hang out with her to make things good again either.

Oh, god, I know exactly what you mean ... I've been going through this with a friend of mine as well ... The problem is, though, she's stopped contacting me completely now, ((Unless I contact her first,)) And it's making me feel even more guilty.

But she's got this horrible storm cloud around her at all times, she's constantly putting herself and others down, and she's the type that laughs very, very loudly at people in public, while gossiping about their appearence. Again, to make herself feel better.

But at the same time, she's done nothing to me.

So yeah, I know exactly what you mean ...

[Nattfall]

You know, just reading that others understand makes me feel better

[MissTamora]

I feel deprived =\

You know, when you have friends like that, the only way you can get them to understand is to tell them. Also you shouldn't feel guilty for feeling like that - at least you're being honest about how you feel, and you're only human. If you tell her you don't wanna see her so much, you'll have to do it in a way that explains the reason behind it so she doesn't feel like you're just pushing her away. Remind her that when people see too much of eachother they can start to get sick of eachother whether they want/deserve it or not - prime example being when some couples move in together, or families in general Good luck!

[Nattfall]

Thank you so much! You know, lately I feel that I've been acting more honest towards her. When she asked me some days ago if I wanted to hang out, I told her that I felt a bit tired and asked her if we could just, you know, take it easy for some days now. She totally understood, and I saw her again yesterday because I delivered her belated birthday present, and she was so happy, so she didn't get offended at all! Thank you, guys, for encouraging me to treat her like the true friend she is, and being honest with her You're so great, all of you!

[BonBonBarbie]

im so glad youve sorted everything Natfall
sometimes you just need to rethink how you see people, and im glad youve found new appreciation in your friend itll help a lot, sometimes people dont 'click' properly and need to fix it and it sounds like youve done it in a nice and caring way (Y)

[Nattfall]

I know, I'm so glad myself! Everything feels so much better between us now. And so much of it is thanks to all of you! Again, thank you so much

[the_zorya]

Originally Posted by xivorymoonx

I feel...
happy, because I'm leaving Friday to go to North Carolina and I get to get outta hot sticky humid Floridaaaa!
And see my family who I love soo much <3
Aaand, my birthday is in about a week and a half and I get lots of shopping money and a whole day at this huge mall in NC =DDD I can't wait o ge lots of new clothes!

woot woot for NC! :]

[xivorymoonx]

Ohh, haha, you live in NC, awesome!
I'm going to Cherokee and Asheville.
West side of NC i think...
Sooo beautiful there!

[the_zorya]

^ OHHH ASHEVILLE.

greatest place ever. i'm going to college there soon :]
it really is beau. hope you have a good time!

[RedXIII]

i feel optimistic about the future and how my life is going

[StrawberryShortcake]

I feel really upset because even though I'm nowhere near recovered from my sickness my parents are making me go back to school in August.

[Keichan]

I'm angry at people who make a fuss about someone and talk bad about her when everyone can see it. I know this person can be annoying, but she doesn't do anything wrong and I'm sick of it even when I don't know her.

[haruhisuzumiya]

Like shit today. It was going good and I had a lot of fun with some co-workers. I called my boyfriend to see where he was. He said it was none of my business, like always.

He's been smoking weed lately. At least he tells me. He said that he would never do it again (first time was when he was in grade 9). But I guess you can't keep promises forever.


I hate myself a lot right now. I just don't want to wake up ever again. EVER.

[yiin]

N O S T A L G I C

[Neysa-san]

I feel wheezy because my asthma is acting up, and a little scared. Not scared because of my asthma though.

[the_zorya]

I feel...impatient.

i want things in life to be back to normal again!
and going camping this weekend just made matters worse (whooo...that dose of nostalgia made me woozy all weekend long).