Bad news.

[littleleah]

Soooo
I found out, like an hour ago..
That the boyfriend I moved away to Austin, and that has asked me to marry him HAS BEEN GOING ONLINE SEARCHING FOR GIRLS ON THE INTERNETZ LIKE A MORON giving out his number to every girl he sees lives in Round Rock, tx or even Austin tx. Hes been sending out messages like "we have stuff in common lets kick it *insert STUPID SMILEY FACE* :]" ....
I am both angered and really really really really sad.
I have a couple of penpals off of asiajam and they know more or less of how good he seemed to be to me. I feel sooo foolish. Like I BELIEVED HIM WHEN HE SAID HE WAS GOING OUT WITH HIS FRIEND MICHAEL but now its like.. idk if some girl actually took the bait and hung out with him when he was suppose to be with his friend.. Weve been together for 2 years...
I know this can seem innocent, but believe me its not. He has a thing on stupid facebook zooks or whatever it is that is a dating app. & he sent girls messages like "id be your perfect match" >.>

I cant wait till he gets home from school so I can knock him around.

[katzluva]

Moved it for you~

Ahhh that sounds SO familiar. Dump the guy. Trust me, he's not worth having around if he already went that far. I should know...my ex did (nearly) the same thing.

[littleleah]

ya i know, but im not going to dump him until ive mentally killed him to where no girl would want him. :/ this is the most sucky feeling ever. especially just waiting for him to come home at 4. & thats cuz last night was really good. like really really good. it sucks being at such a high state to this.

This just isn't like him. Not his character at all.. Ive known him for 8 years and we've been best friends for a long time before we got together... He was a really good guy. Like the best bf ive ever had..

[Clarity]

ouch ]:

I'm glad you're standing up for yourself, rather than forgiving him straight away.
You, nor anyone, never deserves to be treated that way.

Honestly, just tell him absolutely every emotion and feeling you're going through, every thought you've had. Intensely. Get him to understand how badly he's treated you and how hard he's gonna fall from these things he's done. It's one thing to say these things online, but to go out and meet these girls, and call them, etc.. Is just WAY TOO FAR. Especially while he's in a committed relationship.

Just get him to feel the hurt you are. He might feel terrible about it, or he might not.. I don't know. But make him understand regardless.

[Wonderwall]

Are you saying that you moved to be with him?

[littleleah]

No, we both moved to Austin together. The college I wanted to go to is in Austin, and he was already going to college, so he transferred to their Austin Campus.

[Asuka_X]

Cut this asshole loose!!
Obviously he's not as invested in the relationship as you are.
And he's being lying for who knows how long.
He does not respect your feeling, takes marriage lightly, and has issues with monogamy.

Do not get married to him!
It will most likely end in divorce!

[roxshizzo]

He probably asked you to marry him as a cover up so you wouldn't suspect a thing that he is trying to hook up with some random girls. He's probably going through a phase but i rather just dump him.

And it's good that you want to mentally kill him lol!