How do you talk to someone?

[-Batto-]

Hiii~

Yeah, there's this guy I like, but I don't really know how to talk to him. He doesn't really talk all that much, and I guess I'm a bad conversationalist xD

So, how do I start talking to him more without coming on strong?


He's in one of my classes, and that's one of the only times I get to see him.
That and when I'm in the band room, but he's normally talking to other people.

[mallorymaloney]

Originally Posted by -Batto-

How do you talk to someone?

You open your mouth and words come out.












o.o; I'm sorry, I couldn't resist that one. XD Seriously though ... I have no clue. I'm not a very 'social' person, since I've been homeschooled my whole life. x.o; But I'm sure everyone else here will be able to help, I know lots are outgoing and sociable! ^^

[yugidogz]

Gosh, I'm not very good at that sort of thing either! I think my sophmore year, I was lucky, since my crush was a fob (lol) so my friend agreed for us to help him with his English, XD So that's how I got to hang out with him sometimes. But I was too afraid to ever talk to him... @_@;

Do any of your friends talk to him? If so, you should get them to introduce you to him What class do you have him in? Maybe get him to help you with something... I dunno; this is what I told my friend ^^;

[JPanda]

You could try asking questions. Maybe about music? What kind of bands does he listen to? Does he play an instrument? Questions are a good way to break the ice. That way, you're not only talking to him, you're finding out more about him too.

[katzluva]

A LOT of guys just doesnt have much to say. And that's just frustrating, to me at least. I usually try and ask a bunch of questions relating to the class. If he still hardly say anything in response, I get bored and give up.

[r_-cho]

I'm very unusual and random and somewhat nerdy so guys find it easier to talk to me because they feel less intimidated... >__<
har har har it works and it's an old saying but just be yourself.

[kawaiiangel]

Originally Posted by r_-cho

I'm very unusual and random and somewhat nerdy so guys find it easier to talk to me because they feel less intimidated... >__<
har har har it works and it's an old saying but just be yourself.

this is the only advice i can give you as well ...just be yourself, because if you start thinking of questions to ask him, then it'll be really fake and a bit akward when you run out of questions! lol...just make a comment about the class or homework or something, and like katzluva says, just ask questions. then hopefully this'll lead into a conversation about other stuff good luck doll! let us know how you get on!

[Reese]

Hm, you should try and build up to a better relationship.
Start by talking to him very casually, maybe a few comments about the class each day, etc.
It'll show him that you're interested in befriending him, and he should begin to open up to you more. Don't suddenly swamp him with tons of personal questions.

[-Batto-]

Thank you guys so much!

I'll see what I can do~♥

[Cailey]

good luck! i think it is definitely a good idea to just like, ask him a question about the class to break the ice ... i am really awkward at talking to people so i usually just ask them a question even if i know the answer... then use that opportunity to talk to them more. haha. but i am really bad at talking to boys my face always goes red and i get really embarassed and weird...

although the other night i went out dancing with my roommate and i accidentally hit this guy in the face like REALLY hard and i was apologizing profusely and it was extremely embarassing... but then like a minute later he was dancing with me! clearly the key to meeting boys is to HIT THEM.

[diadori]

lol, i'm weird around guys. there was ths guy in my cooking class and me and him and his, like, best friend (who is a girl, she's my friend too) were hanging out waiting for the pizza to cook. My friend was like (pointing to his face) "look, you have pizza sauce all over your face" so i licked my thumb and washed his face. he's really cute so i was like, "oops". I couldn't help it though! Then my friend was like, "you liked that didn't you?" and he was like *blushing* "yeah". he used to like me, so now i'm sad that i didn't know before. It was one of the cutest moments of my life!

sorry, random, i know, i just thought of that story when i was reading this.

[Kakurine]

Go to see him and talk like: "Hey who are you?" And then you chitchat.....That is how I met the guy for me and we became friend...^.-

[mayness]

i really suggest that you just talk to him. i know it seems like the hardest thing in the world to do right now but once you do it, you'll be like "what was i scared of" chances are that he like you too.

and never wait. you never know what you could have had. Don;t let anything slip by especially if you feel a special connection.

there's this quote:
"you never loose by loving. you always loose by holding back"

[-Batto-]

Haha, thanks guys. We're talking a lot more now! We talk about pokemon and stuff xD

[XxworthdyingxX]

i say hi and whats up and yeah


i like llamas

[Marichi]

Originally Posted by -Batto-

Haha, thanks guys. We're talking a lot more now! We talk about pokemon and stuff xD

congrats and way to go!*\(^ o^)/*

[Akemi]

You're making progress! You never know~

[Unni213]

I'm a shy person at first, but the way I get guys to talk to me is to bully them :3 I am a violent tiny person so after a while I can't resist the temptation. Or I say something random to them. Like, you remind me of a pokemon..it's a start, ne?