A few key things first:
I live in Connecticut
Ervin ((ex?)boyfriend) lives in Florida
William lives in Tennessee
Suzzanna lives in Florida near Ervin
Some of you may recall back in August a once dear friend of mine was very sick and in the hospital and it was really upsetting because he lived far away and there was nothing I could do. A few weeks earlier he had told me his girlfriend, Suzzanna, died of cancer.
August 26th he asked me to be his girlfriend and I accepted. Things were going okay up until a few months ago when he wasn't online much anymore and I didn't get to talk to him that much except when I called him on the phone.
April 8th-13th I spent hours calling him every day but he wasn't picking up.
His friend William who isn't online very much either came online on the 6th and I told him how I was sad because he hadn't been picking up his phone, and he asked me if I'd seen his myspace lately, and I said no because I was sure he didn't even use his myspace anymore, so I looked it up and his myspace name is like "Ervin [loves his Suzzanna♥]" and his display picture this picture that I drew for him:
and also his headline thing is "I <3 zanna"
This was pretty upsetting, and it made me feel physically sick, I almost threw up several times I was so distressed. I couldn't get to sleep until 2, but woke up at 4 and called him using *67 and he picked up and I asked him right there "How long have you been going out with Suzzanna?" and he said "2 years the best 2 years of my life" and i said "...This is Jesi." and hung up on him. He called back and started apologizing and saying how he would like call people in his sleep and he was still kind of asleep when he picked up, and like a fool I believed him. He told me the reason his myspace was like that was because he "Just couldnt let go of her."
I believed him and left it at that, and the next few days he was online and we talked and I thought everything was going to be okay.
But then he stopped coming online on April 15th, and again didn't pick up. It was a nightmare all over again, and up until today I spent hours every day trying to call him. Last sunday the 22nd he picked up and just said "Call back in1 5 minutes my sister is on the phone" and so I called back in 15 minutes, and then spent the rest of the day calling back, etc etc.
Today I just got sick of it and started googling ways to hack peoples myspaces (yes I know it's bad I've never done it before but I was really desperate) and I just came up with a link to see their top friends and I used it,
and Suzzanna is on his top 8 her myspace name being "zanna [ervin ish my cuppycake]♥"
and display pic:
I messaged her this:
Hey, I'm Jesi, Ervin's girlfriend,
or at least I thought I was,
but clearly he's just a huge ****ing liar.
He told me you died in August, and has been going out with me since August 26th.
I've been trying to call him since April 8th but he will not pick up the phone when I call, and it has been making me emotionally and physically sick being treated like this, and I guess now I know why he hasn't been picking up.
If you could please do me a favor and let him know that I now know he's just been giving me bullshit for the past 7 months,
and that I am suffering from major depression,
and that I would like to talk to him.
By the way, his display picture, the rabbit that says I <3 you,
I drew that for him...
I'm very sorry to bother you.
- Jesi
And I called him and left a voicemail saying I'm sick of your bullshit and lies and I hope your happy and all that
and, here I am.
I have been cheated on for the past 7 months.
ur wayyy better and DESERVES better, im sure of that..
Yahh, long distant relationships are hard to keep, hope you feel better! 
