The OPPOSITE SEX thread (feel free to rant) - Page 3

MerryHappy · #41 (**permalink**) 04-20-2008, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by marie

I hate when guys give you mixed signals. One day, he'll act like he likes you. Then the next day he doesn't talk to you at all.

omg so true its like fkggfkgfbgfk HELLO! lol

diadori · #42 (**permalink**) 04-20-2008, 09:00 PM

i hate when, your friend gets a boyfriend, then you become friends with the boyfriend, and then they break up, and then whenever you see him you're just like "[awkward wave]".

Zryba · #43 (**permalink**) 04-20-2008, 09:31 PM

It really annoys me when guys say they don't like a girl, then end up going out with her the next day (or soon after). That happened with a guy I like. His friend asked him about this girl and he said "I only see her as a friend, and thats it". Next day he heard they were going out! WTF. They've been going out for a year now. =/

mayness · #44 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 03:33 PM

has anyone ever had a guy tell them :
"i need to find myself first"?

sdifhsdighsdghsdih GRRRRRRR!!!!
for me, it is like, WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY FINDING YOURSELF?
you are already YOU!!!
GOSH!!
i understand that yeah maybe right now in your life, it's hard, but no person can really find "themself"
i think you just have to find what brings out your inner self..

aww gosh.
sorry hard to explain.

mayness · #45 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 03:35 PM

o0h yes,
and guys always say that they don't want to hurt you.
but what they think won't hurt you, hurts you the most.

:/

Gothic_Lolita · #46 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 04:55 AM

Wow thats one stupid punch line, " i need to find myself"! WOW who came up with that.

kkmodel · #47 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by diadori

i hate when, your friend gets a boyfriend, then you become friends with the boyfriend, and then they break up, and then whenever you see him you're just like "[awkward wave]".

I know what you mean. He was tons of fun to hang around but I never really created that individual connection so now whenever we see each other it's always awkward.

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Originally Posted by marie

I hate when guys give you mixed signals. One day, he'll act like he likes you. Then the next day he doesn't talk to you at all.

Exactly!

One thing I have to say I dislike about girls is when they decide someone isn't good enough for you. In my case I'm very studious and quiet but the guy I like is kind of loud and silly and I know no one would 'approve'. It really annoys me.

**Sorry for talking so much

mayness · #48 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Gothic_Lolita

Wow thats one stupid punch line, " i need to find myself"! WOW who came up with that.

o0h girrlll, guys always say that. they also say "i don't know what i want in life right now".

URGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

seventeen magazine says that when a guy says that, they are just trying to say that they're not interested in you, but in a nice way.

wow

xEnvyloverx · #49 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 10:13 PM

Grr
I hate both men AND women... but i think i prefer women.
Actually, I'm not sure... I hate weak women who are only living to have a relationship and when in one, they just please their partner... maybe i should say that i hate hormone-driven individuals?

And some girls... have they no dignity..? *grumbles*
Oh, and I highly dislike guys who think they're dominant or something ... they have nooothing going for them! all guys have is certain part between their legs that makes them do the most STUPID of things! and that's not anything to be proud of!

Dutchie · #50 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 10:30 PM

2 things I just hate about boys... or well I don't know if they all do that, but my ex-boyfriend did that

He had/has a difficult time with university it's way to difficult for him, and now I said, I absolutely don't want to go to HBO (level lower then University, its literally translated higher profession education).. and he was like, ohw but it's so difficult, and you already did a year again, maybe you are not going to make it.. maybe he just doesn't want to admit that I am smarter then him..

and I think that my ex-boyfriend uses the "I'm very sensitive/emotional" (it turned out that he could feel how other felt), "and every girl where I had a relationship with broke up with me" bhohoho:'( (turned out that he let the girls break up with him because he didn't want to do it.. ) to get girls,
in the beginning I thought it was very sweet.. but after a while I thought it was very very annoying... I never want to have a boyfriend again like him

ohw and another.. I hate it when boys spent more money on clothes then I do.. (also my ex-boyfriend did that)...

xEnvyloverx · #51 (**permalink**) 04-26-2008, 01:10 AM

Oh, wow, that reminds me....

Intelligence. I will NEVER go out with a guy whose intelligence is considerably lower than mine ever again. I wasn't too crazy about one of my ex-boyfriends when I first started dating him... but then I grew to really like him( I really don't know why, now that I think about it). However, he wasn't very bright and made the biggest mistakes when he would write to me (online or on paper). He was a lazy person who didn't seem to have a passion for anything. I didn't like how he wasn't serious about ANYTHING, whether it be school, life, or any sort of relationship (even with friends). I could never trust him because he would lie or feel something different in a second. He was also the kind of person to hug people a lot and it seemed that he was into most of his guy and girl friends (which turned out to be true).

I don't want to date another shallow and depressed idiot in my life -_-. I also don't want to date someone who can't hold a phone conversation worth a sh** and only talks online in a sickening and childish fashion. He claimed I was "too obsessed" with him when I wouldn't even hug him two months into our relationship and we broke up right when we just began to kiss each other (not make out or anything deep). He didn't even give me specific reasons as to why we broke up, and he would tell all of his other friends and girlfriends (who i was friends with) all about how he hated me or something.

*sighs* MEN... I'm not dating someone who does meet my standards ever again.

cocolatte · #52 (**permalink**) 05-03-2008, 09:24 PM

I hate guys that are immature and jerks around their friends, and then try to act 'cool' when theres a pretty girl around.
Also I hate guys that say "Look at that girl over there, she's hot..." or "that girl standing behind you was so fine..", and I'm standing right next to them. I'm like wtf, I'm right here you jerk!
I also hate guys that think I can't beat them at video games, I love the look on their faces when I totally whoop their butts. its a little something like...

StrawberryShortcake · #53 (**permalink**) 05-04-2008, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Gothic_Lolita

Wow thats one stupid punch line, " i need to find myself"! WOW who came up with that.

That is a really stupid one. If some guy said that to me I'd be hecka mad.

forsheezy · #54 (**permalink**) 05-04-2008, 09:32 PM

****.

I think I might have just wasted my year and a half on a guy who doesn't know if our relationship is worth it anymore :\

oh well.

AsianLove · #55 (**permalink**) 05-06-2008, 09:15 AM

I hate when guys make fun of you in a mean way

not funny!

Nightingale · #56 (**permalink**) 05-08-2008, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by forsheezy

****.

I think I might have just wasted my year and a half on a guy who doesn't know if our relationship is worth it anymore :\

oh well.

It's ok. Try wasting 3 years of your life on a guy who seems to now deem your relationship as nothing. -_-;; I mean we broke up now and all... But STILL!! That was 3 years! Does that mean nothing to you!?! Jerk... And to think we're friends now... Makes it worse cuz I have to listen to his girl problems and him gushing about his most recent ex who is like perfect. What the hell does that make me!?! O-O 3 years!

Don't be like me -_-;;

forsheezy · #57 (**permalink**) 05-10-2008, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightingale

It's ok. Try wasting 3 years of your life on a guy who seems to now deem your relationship as nothing. -_-;; I mean we broke up now and all... But STILL!! That was 3 years! Does that mean nothing to you!?! Jerk... And to think we're friends now... Makes it worse cuz I have to listen to his girl problems and him gushing about his most recent ex who is like perfect. What the hell does that make me!?! O-O 3 years!

Don't be like me -_-;;

Sorry to hear about that :\

Yeah, we've been talking and he said that if we do break up, he'd love to be friends with me. I doubt that would fare well. Breaking up and being friends works well in a short relationship, but once the relationship gets long, it's just awkward and frustrating.

mayness · #58 (**permalink**) 05-10-2008, 11:00 PM

don't you guys feel like when a guy breaks up w/ you,
it's like saying "i don't want to be with you".

&& with that, it's like things will never be the same

but then why do they come back?

iono, maybe it's just me.

forsheezy · #59 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 06:10 PM

God... this is so stressful

I dont feel like going to school anymore. Seeing his face. Ugh.

EDIT: yeah. it's over.

StrawberryShortcake · #60 (**permalink**) 05-13-2008, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by AsianLove

I hate when guys make fun of you in a mean way

not funny!

Yes, definitely. I know someone who did that. He did end up getting married but is single now. My Dad said he was always saying mean things in front of his wife that he thought was really funny but everyone else thought was cruel.